I stood in the crowd, feeling these dormant parts of me re-awakened as these songs from my youth transported me back to the pains and struggles of my early twenties. I thought of the doubts and fears I faced back then and couldn't help but feel a resignation that, yup, many of the same demons still haunt me now.Read More
Despite the footnote it is given in most of our kids’ history books, the “racial” part of American history isn't a footnote to our heritage. The more deeply you read, the more you see American history and black history as inextricably linked.
American history IS black history. And vice versa.Read More
I wonder if she noticed that time I opted to take the stairs rather than share an elevator alone with her. I’m almost certain she caught on that time my car had broken down. I caught a hint of confusion, maybe even embarrassment, on her face when I declined her kindness. “No thanks,” I told her. “I actually prefer the bus.”
But I don’t prefer the bus. I rode the bus, and climbed the stairs, because I had refused to be alone with any woman who wasn’t my wife. No car rides. No meetings behind closed doors even if those doors are just elevator ones. It was a covenant to myself—we met in parties of three or we didn’t meet at all.
BLOOMINGTON-NORMAL — With racial tensions, protests and violence boiling over in cities like Ferguson and Charleston, some residents of Bloomington-Normal say the twin cities are not exempt from the ongoing national dialogue about race.
“We’re ‘grace away’ from being a Ferguson,” said Normal Town Council member Chemberly Cummings. “We have to be diligent as a community to make sure it does not happen.”
Cummings, who was elected as Normal’s first black Council member in 2017, expressed hope for the future, while noting there is work yet to do. “Whether it’s based off of race, age, gender, class—you need to feel like you have a place here.”
She added, “I do love the community. I feel like it has a lot of potential to do some wonderful things. It will never be perfect. No place ever is.”Read More
BLOOMINGTON-NORMAL — As more Bloomington-Normal residents opt to commute via bike, close calls with vehicle traffic are a scary, yet nearly unavoidable rite of passage for many cyclists.
Michael Gorman, a member of local bike advocacy group Bike BloNo, recalled an unsettling near miss earlier this year while riding his bike on East Washington Street. A Connect Transit city bus came up from behind, he said, but didn’t allow enough room when passing him.
“The bus driver decided to go as little into the left lane as needed in order to avoid me,” remembered Gorman. “The back corner of the bus almost hit me.”Read More
There's no denying that gender representation and diversity are having a cultural moment. For many Christians, it's natural to view this moment as another sign of hyper liberalism and feminism.
I feel it too, that reflexive, defensive wall I erect when I sense my biblical fidelity is under attack. It’s that drop in my gut when I fear that by allowing the tides even one inch of ground, I may open myself to be swept up completely.
Yet that seems a flimsy excuse to remain uncritical and uncaring, failing to take advantage of the opportunity for personal growth and sacrifice that the moment is offering me.
Lately, this opportunity has meant considering the ways I have allowed social niceties, cultural mores, and media representations to infiltrate and influence my views of male and female. I am giving thought to how they distort something as sacred as Christian siblinghood (and the devaluing of the dignity and Imago Dei of my sisters in Christ, in particular).
I’m grateful to my friend Abby Perry for taking this conversation a step forward in this wonderful piece for Christ & Pop Culture. Abby is a consistently winsome writer and deep thinker, and I am often challenged and encouraged by her. I love that I've gotten to play a part in this piece coming together.
My wife and I don’t watch any shows with nudity or gratuitous sex scenes. This is a personal choice we’ve made, and we don’t make a federal case out of it. I know plenty of good, moral people who are just fine seeing naked bodies and sexy depictions of sexy sex while binging their favorite shows. If that’s you, then I’m not going to judge you for it. (I will, however, lift you up before the Lord in my prayers tonight.)
During the school year, I'm usually at the library 3 to 4 nights every week. As I'm here, I can't help but notice the same strangers who also have a regular library habit. There's the fellow tired-looking nontraditional students with their books and laptops spread out. There's the same group of retirees hunched in their computer lab seats as they rhythmically click and scroll through Facebook and Gmail and YouTube. Or the harmless homeless guys who curl up in quiet corners, reading novels while they wait for their phones to charge on the complimentary power outlets.
But my favorite library stranger is a middle-aged woman I first noticed 4 to 5 weeks ago.
She's never alone.
There's a tutor (or a friend?) with her. And she's learning how to read and speak English. They read library books together, and they listen to audio clips too. And then the tutor/friend will check for her understanding while they have English-only conversations about what they've learned. The woman is always shy and timid when she answers, but she laughs and smiles this great big smile when her friend tells her how good she's doing.
And you know what? The friend isn't just being nice. The woman really is getting so stinking good! It's inspiring to see the level of effort and discipline she's been putting into her English studies.
She's not ready for the big time yet. Her English is still broken to the point where an impatient person would probably give her a hard time. But for real, she is *light-years* beyond where she was this time a month ago. And even though I'm just a guy who's been eavesdropping on her this whole time, I feel privileged catching a glimpse into this complete stranger's life as she accomplishes this incredible goal.